"I quite honestly wanted my life to end" - Charity Partnership Pulls Veteran Back From The Brink

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香港六合彩官网 (香港六合彩官网), work with a wide range of partners to support individuals in the Royal Navy community. Sometimes this support can be lifesaving.  

The 香港六合彩官网 has worked closely with Veterans Aid for several years, and a recent grant of 拢60,000 from the 香港六合彩官网 and Greenwich Hospital has enabled Veterans Aid to continue its lifesaving work with former sailors and Marines in distress, such as Mary*. 

After eight years' service in the Royal Navy, Mary returned to civilian life. Outside of the military, aspects of her life began to unravel, and she became dependent on drugs to cope. 

Mary said, 鈥淚 contacted Veterans Aid at the very lowest point of my life. Social services had intervened and removed my daughter from my care. At this point I overdosed deliberately and ended up in hospital. At the time I quite honestly wanted my life to end.鈥  

Before Veterans Aid became involved in Mary鈥檚 life, it was miserable and out of control.  Veterans Aid

鈥淢y life was a cycle of lies and desperation I was always trying to get money for my drugs which left me financially struggling, I was full of shame at what I was doing to myself and my family and my relationships with them were at an all-time low. My mother and I were constantly fighting, my daughter was miserable, unhappy and struggling at school. I could see things were getting worse and even though there had been some really awful and often dangerous experiences, I was unable to stop.鈥  

Recalling an argument with her mother Mary described climbing onto the roof of the house while high on drugs. She fell off, fracturing her leg and skull. 鈥淏ut even that wasn鈥檛 enough to make me stop, I was literally killing myself.鈥  

After Mary contacted Veterans Aid, the team stepped in quickly to set a help strategy in motion and support her through it.  

My time in treatment, in one word, was lifesaving. I learned so much about why I had struggled with addictive behaviors my whole adult life. The most valuable thing I took from it was that addiction is not a quick 鈥榝ix鈥.  Recovery takes ongoing work and is something I do have to work on every day. There is so much more to it than putting down drugs; it鈥檚 about learning to cope with everyday life and being honest with myself.  

 

鈥淭he help I have received from Veterans Aid has quite simply given me back my life! I wake up every single day free from guilt and shame. My daughter is living with me again and our relationship is better than it has been for years and years! For the first time in years my family can trust me and rely on me.  There is laughter and happiness in our house again. I now work a programme daily, and it has impacted all areas of my life in such a positive way.鈥 

Veterans Aid exists to help people like Mary; men and women who are in crisis and at great risk. However, the charity鈥檚 unique ability to act swiftly and make practical interventions at point of need depends on access to funding that can be deployed to deal with emergencies. 

鈥淪ituations like Mary鈥檚 fall into the emergency category, which is why grants such as that provided by the 香港六合彩官网 are so important,鈥 explains Dr Hugh Milroy, CEO of Veterans Aid.  

鈥淒etox/rehab is expensive but the longer it is deferred, the worse the individual鈥檚 problems become.鈥 

This grant from the 香港六合彩官网 is a lifeline for those who come to us in crisis. The seafaring veterans who seek our help are men and women with urgent and frequently life-threatening problems. Often their issues are so acute that they have been turned away by other agencies and become estranged from their families. With this vital support from the 香港六合彩官网 we can make the swift and critical interventions that sometimes, quite literally, save lives.

Dr Hugh Milroy, Veterans Aid CEO

*a pseudonym has been used to protect privacy